1. The first part of your introduction letter must capture the attention of the lady you are writing to. Try a compliment or several compliments.
2. Do not make your first letter too long, if you are sending more than a 1-1.5 pages it's too much. A 7-8 page introduction letter can just scare off the lady.
3. Your letter should not be too short either, and it should be interesting. Include some important information about yourself, do not just write “Hi, my name is Tom, I like you, and I hope you will reply.” Tell about your age, your profession, your children if you have any, and your hobbies.
4. The lady needs to know that you are serious, not just looking for a toy and a housekeeper, that you're not another pen pal who will never come to visit and so on. Write a couple sentences on this topic in your introduction letter.
5. Do personalize your first letter, mention some keywords she uses in her application, refer to the information she provides about her character and interests.
6. Ask some questions. One of the largest problems that the ladies have is writing an answer. Your questions will help them to write their letters, and will also help you to learn more about the ladies you are interested in.
7. Do not get into the topics that might be very controversial. Leave them for later time.
8. Do not talk bad about all the women you dated, or get into the details of your past relations so on and so forth, they come later.
9. Use literary English, and check your spelling. Try not to use abbreviations, and slang words. Leave out the poems that might not translate well.
10. Do not tell all about yourself in the very first letter. Leave some of the information for the next letters. Besides, telling a bit about what you enjoy gives plenty of room to ask a few good questions.
11. When you write your introduction letter, always include a couple good photos of yourself. If you do not want to pay big money to a good photographer, at least try to choose a photo in which you are attractive and smiling. Do not use photos with your friends drinking at the bar, with some girls, or in the eyeglasses. Make sure that you make a good impression, and that the lady can see your face clearly. Color photos are always better than black-and-white.
12. If you want to make sure that the lady will pick your letter up in 24 hours after you send it, use the hand delivery option, and a representative of the agency will hand over the letter to the lady in person.
13. Order the translation, especially when you write to a lady who does not speak fluent English. She will certainly appreciate it. If the lady gets your letter in English and cannot understand it, there is little chance that she will reply such a letter.
14. You can also send a gift before you write a letter. If you are really interested in some special lady, and you want to capture her attention, the gifts delivery option can be very helpful. You can choose the gift from our catalogue, and we will deliver it to the lady. It is safer than using regular mail, because gifts can sometimes be lost or stolen in the former USSR mail system.
15. When you look for the ladies you want to write to, try to be realistic in your choices. Do not pick the ladies who are more than twenty years younger than you, because there is little chance that they will reply. The main mistake most guys make that they are too restrictive in their choice of ladies. Write to several girls, the ones you find acceptable as your wife, not just the incredibly beautiful ones. These beautiful ladies usually get the most letters and are rather selective. If you look past the several first pages you will find some nice but lonely ladies. You can also use our search engine.
The agency staff can also recommend you a few ladies from our catalogue who might turn out to be a good match for you. We know all the ladies displayed on our web site in person so you may find our suggestions very helpful.
16. You had better not correspond for longer than three month. The only thing letter writing can do is to provide enough information about a lady to allow you to evaluate if you both have enough interest to meet. Letters can not replace meeting in person, so once you feel you are ready, find time to travel, and visit your lady.
17. On the third week send a follow up letter to any of the ladies you didn't get an answer from. Just a short note saying you were really hoping on hearing from her, and wanted to make sure she got the first letter.
18. Do not forget to answer the lady’s questions. This will help you to earn her trust.
19. Be proactive in the process of writing letters. Try to always respond in time, so that there will be no long breaks in your correspondence. Otherwise the lady might lose her interest, or think that you are not serious in your desire to find an ideal partner. Those who write letters passively are rarely successful.
20. If you do not get a reply from a lady, do not be afraid to try again with some other one. There are more than a thousand girls on our website, and one of them might be your true love.
